Are You Shy of Talking about Money with Your Spouse?

Money makes people funny, or so the saying goes, and its true. Everything from different spending habits and financial goals to one spouse making considerably more money than the other, causing a power struggle can strain a marriage to the breaking point. Money really touches everything. It impacts peoples lives, Clearly, money and stress do […]

Strategy of The Smart Street Hawker

Using The Law of Reciprocity as a Business Model

  The Smart Street Hawker who sell groundnuts will go about football fields, airports car parks, plazas, public recreational parks and bus parks shouting “Sweet groundnut” and when a request is made, she is willing to give you a stranger a handful to taste. Her conversion rate from prospect to customer is 80%. Such is […]

Empowered Women vs. Entitled Men

Now if this isn’t the truth and nothing but the truth, then I dunno what is. Most men think they want an empowered woman, so they go out and get married to one. Then after a while they want to treat her in the same way and manner their fathers, grandfathers and forefathers treated their […]

Avoid Jumping to Conclusions

The entire family was at the dining table. Our little 6-year-old girl wasn’t eating and had her nose in her plate After a few moments, she said, I have something to tell you people Silence around the table. Im no longer a virgin, and she begins to cry. A long silence again. And then, her […]

The Rape Culture in Nigeria and the Conspiracy of Victim Blaming

Why is it that we tend to blame victims of rape as somehow being at fault for “attracting” this horrible crime? This attitude just gets me really, really pissed off! You’d hear people you thought were educated and exposed ask stupid questions like, “But what was she wearing?” “The lady must have dressed skimpily.” “What […]

What is Wrong With Being a Brown Skin Girl?

Please what is wrong with being dark-skinned? Why do some Nigerian ladies have a core dislike for the colour of their skin?? I dont know about other African countries🤦🏻‍♀🤦🏻‍♀🤦🏻‍♀ Is it our men that contribute to it? When they will be looking for fair ladies upandan🙄😏 Or is it just low self-esteem or inferiority complex […]

Who Are the Real Witches of Nigeria?

A curious case of mistaken identity

  The way we direct our attention towards witchcraft baffles me! To say that Nigeria is a deeply religious country is an understatement. We are both religious as well as superstitious. Oh how I wish that our dear prayer warriors, spiritual directors, imams, priests, pastors & preachers both online and offline focus more attention on […]