An Unusual Christmas Gift

Listen o! It’s not like I’m stingy, selfish or anything vile… but just don’t come around my house and be expecting to be served a full 3-course meal after December 26th! That’s an entitlement mentality and we are having none of that!✋🏼 So just expect piping hot green tea. Of course there are also several […]

Do You Know Vampires Exist?

Oh yeah they do!

Oh! Vampires do exist. But they don’t always come with sharp teeth or pale faces, and they may not necessarily like human blood. Sometimes they actually come in the shape of regular colleagues at work or more precisely the critical friend. Sometimes the vampire is even family! You know them… the ones that feed off […]

The Problem With Hard-Working Uneducated Folks

The need for enterprise education

People misunderstand the root cause of the problem with the Nigerian youths. It’s not that the youths are plain lazy, it’s that they have subconsciously been programmed to have lazy thoughts. And hope to hammer. Pray for a miracle. Or maybe find employment in Shell & NNPC. We have a great number of “unskilled labour” […]

A Bad Relationship is like a Flat Tyre

You aint going nowhere!

A bad marriage can make you look like a bad or toxic person. You reflect your choices. It also makes you burn all of your social capital. Because at the end of the day, just know that any cancerous emotions complaining, contending, criticising, competing and comparing that are present within a toxic partner or spouse […]

Are You Shy of Talking about Money with Your Spouse?

Money makes people funny, or so the saying goes, and its true. Everything from different spending habits and financial goals to one spouse making considerably more money than the other, causing a power struggle can strain a marriage to the breaking point. Money really touches everything. It impacts peoples lives, Clearly, money and stress do […]

Strategy of The Smart Street Hawker

Using The Law of Reciprocity as a Business Model

  The Smart Street Hawker who sell groundnuts will go about football fields, airports car parks, plazas, public recreational parks and bus parks shouting “Sweet groundnut” and when a request is made, she is willing to give you a stranger a handful to taste. Her conversion rate from prospect to customer is 80%. Such is […]

Empowered Women vs. Entitled Men

Now if this isn’t the truth and nothing but the truth, then I dunno what is. Most men think they want an empowered woman, so they go out and get married to one. Then after a while they want to treat her in the same way and manner their fathers, grandfathers and forefathers treated their […]

Avoid Jumping to Conclusions

The entire family was at the dining table. Our little 6-year-old girl wasn’t eating and had her nose in her plate After a few moments, she said, I have something to tell you people Silence around the table. Im no longer a virgin, and she begins to cry. A long silence again. And then, her […]

The Rape Culture in Nigeria and the Conspiracy of Victim Blaming

Why is it that we tend to blame victims of rape as somehow being at fault for “attracting” this horrible crime? This attitude just gets me really, really pissed off! You’d hear people you thought were educated and exposed ask stupid questions like, “But what was she wearing?” “The lady must have dressed skimpily.” “What […]