“Men are dogs” she says
“These girls ain’t loyal” he says
But a dog can be quite loyal, especially if you’ve spent the time training and nurturing one, it will always come back home even when they stray.
Depending on how you treat your lover; she can be a beauty or a beast. A famine or a feast. Can turn each day into a heaven or a hell.
For the sun is neither good nor bad. The same sun that melts the snow, hardens the clay. In the same way, humans are not their behaviour, the way you treat someone determines how they’ll respond.
Have you ever tried playing a card game of ‘Whot’ with a new friend without clearly defining your house rules? A lot of heated arguments can happen in course of one game!
Most often you’ll find you really don’t need a new relationship, you just need to redefine your behaviour, expectations and the rules governing your relationship.
Be patient with your spouse and learn to develop a base of understanding through communication, layout the rules and it can save you a lot of stress and heartache later.